Đầu tiên là tình yêu, sau đó là tình dục

in which both of you feel comfortable and secure.

It's important that you talk to your partner

because being able to discuss this openly

and preparing for it together

is crucial for ensuring that your first time

is truly special.

Make sure that you have enough time

to discover one another.

Be careful and gentle when you take the next step

and begin kissing and caressing one another.

Take it slowly.

Give yourselves time to get in tune with one another

and make sure that your partner is also really ready.

Don't let anyone talk you into anything

that you don't really want to do.

If you start having doubts

and realize that you're not ready

to go all the way after all,

then it shouldn't be a problem for your partner

if you pet a little while longer.

To ensure that this will be an unforgettable experience

for both of you,

don't be too insistent

and treat one another with mutual respect.

It's completely natural if, while making love, you become even more excited and your

desire becomes increasingly urgent.

Lie down carefully on your partner so that she is aware of your arousal.

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